Which Therapy Is Right for You?

Introduction

When it comes to choosing a therapist, a common question is “What type of therapy is right for me?” This can be true if you are a client looking for personal therapy or if you are a therapist looking for training and professional development. Many therapies are rooted in different philosophies and suit different kinds of emotional and psychological needs. This blog breaks down the key differences between the common therapeutic approach of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), to help you can decide which path fits best.

What Is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)?

CBT is a structured, present-focused therapy that teaches clients to recognise and change negative thought patterns. It’s especially effective for:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Phobias
  • OCD

Goal: Change the way you think to change the way you feel.

What Is Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)?

EFT is an emotion-centred therapy that helps clients access, express, and transform deep emotional experiences. It’s especially helpful for:

  • Trauma
  • Emotion processing difficulties and dysregulation
  • Relationship conflict
  • Self-esteem issues

Goal: Understand and transform emotions keeping you in stuck patterns to achieve healing and change.

EFT vs. CBT: A Side-by-Side Comparison

  CBT EFT
 FOCUS Thoughts and behaviours Emotions and meaning
 GOAL Symptom reduction Emotional processing and transformation
 SESSION STYLE Structured, set agenda, homework-based Exploratory, experiential
 THERAPIST RELATIONSHIP STYLE Content driven, directive Empathic, curious, guiding and following together
 EVIDENCE-BASE Strong for symptom-relief Strong for deep lasting change and growth

 

Which One Should You Choose?

CBT can provide short-term tools to manage stress, anxiety, or specific behaviours. EFT is a good choice for clients who are stuck, emotionally overwhelmed, want to work through deeper personal issues or are looking for a therapy for longer term impact and growth. They have very different relational styles and techniques.

Conclusion: Matching Therapy to Your Needs

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to mental health. Whether you are a therapist or a client, the best therapy is the one that resonates with you and your needs.